I am going to feel awful! Two cousins getting married this year. One just invites us to a Friday night party on the same invite as my parents and sister. I say no: 250 miles away, day off work, leave early to put Liebs to bed as our potential babysitters are at the party.

Now another invite, a full wedding invite, 250 miles away, no children. Again, all potential babysitters at wedding and can't leave Liebs at home as PiL won't have him nights or mornings. Is it OK not to go or am I just being awkward?