well the question wasn't about me trying to fob someone off, but rather the opposite...

I message on fb and get no reply, but two weeks ago we were hanging out a lot, our kids playing.... I've called over Christmas, invited them to carols, Christmas eve Drinks, Dinner and they have said, great idea. And no call back to arrange the evening.... Now I have called about four times this past week .... Funny thing just to ask if I left my bloody designer sunglasses there, and they haven't answered the mobile phone, not once, or called back or even text,

last wednesday before xmas, I saw them for a quick drop in to give them some Christmas gifts I bought. I asked them to call to let me know about Christmas eve drinks... I particually said please call to let us know as otherwise we will make other plans..... Then we called Xmas eve when we had a babysitter and they didn't answer.... After Christmas is when I tried to call again, to see if they have my glasses....

Why won't she or he just say, I don't think it's best for our kids to hang out, or we don't like you. FFS this is why I don't usually bother trying with people.... hubby even left a message on the mob saying it's cool if you don't want to hang out, but don't say you will and then fob us off... I won't call again, if you wan a be mates, call me..... And he got a text back at a random time saying, Who's is up? which means nothing.. I replied. can't understand what your text says. hope you all had a great Christmas, what are youz up to? And nothing since..... Except for not answering the bloody mobile.... And the most annoying part is... She writes on fb to other people but not back to me....

I think I should just forget about it but I bet she will eventually get round to it and make up some lame excuse. But I don't need friends like that anyway... I'm just mad, I put up with some weird behavior but this preggo chick is ****ing me off