Banning people from your house

[Catastrophic]

No one is banned from our house. I personally think it would have to be something pretty major for someone to be banned....

Like BG mine is pretty serious as well...

there is a few other people that I really would like to ban - but I can tolerate them in small doses...

[*LittleMissSummer*]

My reason for banning his friend aren't THAT serious just more i am very offended by his comments towards me and i don't want to be made to feel uncomfortable in my own home.

[briggsy's girl]

My reason for banning his friend aren't THAT serious just more i am very offended by his comments towards me and i don't want to be made to feel uncomfortable in my own home.

it doesn't matter how "serious" your reasons, it's your "space" - your place to feel safe. irrespective of your reasons for it, if you are made to feel uncomfortable in your own space, your DP should have enough respect for you to adhere to your wishes. he doesn't have to agree, he doesn't have to understand. he just has to accept and respect it. it would be different if you were visiting someone else and this person was there - it's not your space, so you really just have to suck it up - but when it's your home, if you are made to feel uncomfortable by someone, it's time for your other half to man up and show you some respect

[Charlotte91]

MIL's partner is banned from our home.