I'm here.....!! PM me all you want to know
... oh Yules how did you see this here, what a miracle woman i was gonna PM you soonish

Yules hey about i have chat with my DP either tonight or tomorrow night and i will get together a list of questions to ask you (will try make it pain-free for you as possible, lol) !! BTW feel free to fire away and post any info you might like to share with anyone here that might see this thread at some point

(thanks Yules for the generous offer, does that mean i can move in with you too, harr harr !! ... i'm not looking for a sweet perfect lifestyle there which doesn't exist anywhere and what i can see doesn't there, i know i am just after a massive change and not long term, i think my DP feels the same !! )