I think sometimes it comes down to the people involved.

For instance, I can somehow get away with calling my Superintendent at work just 'boss' or by his first name. Most others would get crucified for doing the same thing and have to call him Superintendent _____. Same even goes for some Assistant Commissioners.

Thanks for the news about the two spaces after a full stop being 'out' now. I started a thread on that and the majority of BB girls who replied agreed that only one space was needed - and you've doubly confirmed that for me!

My job is always changing - but I am quite laid back and easy going. I feel it makes me more approachable - thus allowing people not to be afraid to ask me a question when in a room full of ppl (I'm a public speaker most of the time at work - so I come across all sorts of ppl aged from 4 yrs old to 94 yrs old). I've dealt with 'internal' customers from Cadets straight up to the Commissioner. I must have the gift of the gab. But in saying that apparently I'm too 'officious' at home - can't please everyone!