don't you dare do any housework (inside or out!!) on your child free day!!

massage and pedicure, if there's cash-ola available ...

hot bubble bath with candles, music and malteasers ... with a mag or novel ...

go to a cafe then window shop then have lunch out ...

sit in the sun somewhere, lay down and read with a bottle of juice, sandwich and have a nap ...

go to the pool ...

whatever makes you happy and relaxes you!

things you can't justify the rest of the time - things like the gardening, the shopping, the gym there's always some time for - but baths and lunches and browsing? much harder!