doesn't have to be gardening babe - i'm sure there are things your DH could do with computer stuff that could be awesome for bartering...

the good part is that the masseuse we go to works from home, has a dedicated work room, austar in the lounge, happy to work on DH and I at a time that works for us - and happy to have the poppet in the other room if need be (she calls him Uncle cos he's a big part of our lives) - makes it less stressful than having to worry about finding a baby sitter if mum isn't available to have DD for some reason!