I am so happy to provide inspiration - I know I needed it so much when I was on this journey. Yes, women in their 40s are amazing. I am due in 10 days with my 3rd. CAnnot believe it. biggest issue now is how to organise 2 bubs under 2 and another with special needs....but really, 2.5 years ago, I did not think these would be my kind of 'issues'.....