Hey Teagan
Welcome to the 2WWWeirdland.....
Anonymous vs Identifiable? Personally, I wanted an anonymous donor (sperm). There are 2 men in my life I thought of approaching. But, the more I thought about it, the more I thought it may create more pressures and complications than joy all round. So, I opted for anonymous.
I dearly hope any child of mine (check - positive thinking!) will attempt to find their father when old enough. Atm that is the law. I firmly believe every child has a right to know their father. Donor and I are not allowed to find each other atm, but the child can when 18. You have to be in agreeance with that before you sign up. Who knows when laws will change though.
I am a firm believer in a child being raised in a home that offers love and security. When it comes down to it, that's all that matters. Some of the argument regarding identifiable donors seems to revolve around a child not having a father around. I would rather be a solo parent than raise a child in a home which is less than stable or happy. I'm also lucky too that a do have a lot of male friends. Plenty of male role models!!
So, that's my $20 worth.
Take care.
Love
Sue
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