I would definately go elsewhere.

On our first IVF cycle I went away from our first FS appointment feeling that it was over way to quick but I thought this was normal so we went away and had tests and then went back to the second appointment on my own to get results. The FS spent the whole time looking at my boobs (FS was a she) and I felt so uncomfortable. I really wanted to change specialists but DH worked away and was never home during the week to get an appointment with our normal doctor to get another referral so we put up with it. I really wish we had of changed and waited etc. We were driving 1 hour and 20 mins one way to the clinic and we would get there and have a 2 mins appointment. A couple of days before we were to start our IUI we were told that DH hadn't had an antibody test done so we were then delayed another month only to be told that his antibodies were no good and we would have to have ICSI. I was devasted and in turn hated going to the FS and clinic from there on in. We changed FS and clinics and I couldn't be happier. We still haven't got our BFP (this will come in 2 weeks time hopefully ) but I have nothing but praise for our clinic. When we did our FET earlier this year and it came up negative the clinic called me to make sure I was ok, they called DH to see how he was going and sent out a little letter in the mail with a little "gift" (a special quote) to say that they were there if we needed them. I am elated with their service and best of all they are a small clinic and know me by name not number.

I hope you find the strenght to do what you feel best. LIke one of the othe rgirls said, this is the most emotional time of your life.

GOod luck! xoxox