hi welcome. sorry to hear what you have one through unfortunately there are a few women here who have had to ask themseves the same question. I think there was a thread about it a few months ago.
I was fortunate enough to concieve on our 2nd cycle so haven't had to face thay road yet so don't have an answer for you. even tho there is no real answer to the question as everyone and every journey is different.
hopefully others will have more advice to give but just anted to give you some support
Thanks TT40. Appreciate the support.
I haven't been able to find the older thread you referred to but have met with a counsellor a couple of times since I posted with a focus on our relationship surviving post IVF.
I have felt confident throughout the process so far, I just assumed it would all happen within the first six cycles but each time we have a cycle we seem to encounter another problem. After eight cycles the financial and emotional well is running dry!
I wish that I had known earlier if I was going to be unable to have children- there are alot of things I would have done differently.
I have been making decisions based on planning to have a child for the last 10 years (changing jobs to one that would be able to be done part time, choosing a car suitable for a car seat, etc) and have been far too responsible and well behaved my whole life based on becoming a good wife and mother and not getting pregnant unexpectedly- if I'd known getting pregnant was going to be so hard for me I would have had alot more fun!
Thanks again for the support