Mike Aitken is really lovely, as is Steve so you are in good hands. IVM sounds like it is a really good options for you guys.

I've had the same thing happen with a slow developing embryo and not knowing until the last minute that their was no embryo - it is heart breaking.

It is definitely hard to stay positive, both DH and I have been through depression over this time, it's a huge life changing thing to go through IVF. The only thing I can say is to be kind to yourself and dont have unrealistic expectations on how you react and what you should be doing during IVF. Might see you around the clinic