Leis - sorry about your Dad - it is heartbreaking to get news about our dear Dads - mine passed away last August .He had leukemia and a bone marrow transplant but died suddenly from a side effect /complication of graft vs host.

I so wanted to tell him I was doing IVF but never did (only wanted to tell when successful)- he was even in same hospital. The last time I'd seen him live we snuck in to have FET and they saw us in the corridor of a very large hospital. I hope you soon have good news for your Dad.

I had same unfounded 'barren' worry last June - when they were to remove / clip my tubes - during a lap. Post op when I was bleeding heaps and they refused to tell me anything till Dr saw me- she was taking all day.

I had my op at 8.30am - by 5pm I ended up in tears (severely distressed) and yelling loudly I wanted to see Nurse Supervisor NOW- she came too. They had kept ignoring my buzzer for best part of an hour - oh your nurse is on teabreak - I know nothing.

I had IV and no IV pole.NO help to go pee. Dizzy etc etc

I was Day only booking too but still there ! and they said oh we think you are staying O/N - I asked why ?as DR never said that - OH ask your Dr WTHeck !

I feel so embarassed now but they only had to say - yes your uterus is okay but b*tches wouldn't - NS said not hospital policy I said - never as a nurse would I leave a patient so distressed - she assured me the Dr was coming very soon - actually 7PM and would explain everything - so not reassuring.

It was okay and better news as only took 1 tube and my supposed bicornuate uterus - WAS NOT ! - I can't understand why they didn't say - hey it's okay !.
My advice tell your Dr if you want - you want it written in your notes they can tell you if it's okay - the unnecessary worry gave me the biggest heartache since my DD died - thinking they had done a hysterectomy - the worse day.

DR saw me 7pm-told me good news and I was out of there in 5mins flat.HAPPY