FG - I think a lot of LTTTC women go through these thoughts. When I discussed it with my DH he didn't really seem to get it - he saw his life/role being exactly the same either way. He still wanted to live in the burbs, go to work each day, walk the dog etc. I felt totally different, like all of what I was doing in life hinged on eventually adding children to the picture.
It's a very interesting topic and it is something that makes LTTTC a very emotional and individual journey for everyone.
:hugs:
Jo