Dear Buffy,

I know exactly how oyu feel...it is sooooooooooo frustrating. My DH and I have been doing IVF/ICSI for 2 years (reason DH low sperm, but healthy sperm) I have just had my 10th Transfer and had to do 7 drug cycles so when I say I know how you feel I do. I want to rip my hair out sometimes. Like you, I had had every test too, that dracula blood test (how much blood do they need?) anyway and also had a laperoscopy to wake up and find that I am perfectly normal and healthy. Like you I eat well, excercise and am a normal weight. I have also been doing accupuncture and chinese herbs for over a year too. I think it is a numbers game - the other thing is I feel I wasted far too much time transferring day 3's, the last two transfers I have done blasts only, from what I have read blast is the way to go.
Question - do you know how thick your uterus lining is at transfer ? They check it when they scan us for follicles (for egg collection) and then again when they transfer to place embie in the middle of the uterus and good thickness. From what I have read it needs to be at least 4mm to 12mm. I wish you sooooo much luck we all deserve to have a baby... at least you still have sometime to try, I feel under pressure as I just turned 41, it's really scary at my age. Please check the lining next cycle ask questions about it.

I have heard stories where it takes couples a good 3 years to get there... perhaps your turn is soon, I really wish it for you, hang in there.