LOL melbel.....Getting hubby to agree for me to get tests will be hard enough. As I said he is very laid back with the whole thing and that it will happen when it happens. I was on nightshift work when we first started but have not done that for a year. So I thought my body should have sorted itself out if that was what was affecting it. Obviously not!
Thanks for all the info. At least I know what I am in for. Its so hard to wrap your head around the fact that it was so easy the first time and then the second time is so hard. I had all these plans in my head about distance between my kids and how it would all work. I don't usual plan that well but I have always had ideals about my kids. Hard to let go.
I did try charting at one stage too. But got lazy. Plus I had a mercury thermometer and I don't think I was shaking it enough when I first woke up so I was getting dodgy readings.
Thanks for so many replies to. I forgot how wonderful you girls are at answering posts!!