I'm about to turn 36 and have been TTC for nearly 3 years. We have private health, so that did pay for most of the costs associated with the Lap - but we are still out of pocket for lots of things. I agree with trying to get the lap done as soon as you can if possible. It may be that there are lots of costs with the IVF, but if you get the investigation done there may be something 'easy' that can be done first.

Worthwhile investigating whether the fertility clinic that just opened up in dandenong would be suitable for you - I believe the costs of IVF etc are pretty much just at bulk billing level..... not that you are at that place yet, but just in case....

big hugs lovely... it's a tough road when you don't know what's going on. I keep trying to tell myself I have time, I have time... but each birthday feels harder.

I hope you get some answers soon - and welcome to BB, there are lots of lovely people here who can help answer any and all your questions

in the meantime - be nice to yourself, and look after your relationship - that will be what gets you through xoxo