Thanks for your replies. I think we have to decide to get the Lap done and not wait forever. I am considering going to the local GP to see if they can check as I have had some very painful periods in the last few months to the point of not being able to go to work and that is just not normal for me. Maybe that will change the priority but if not we will look at getting the Lap done privately.

Myturn, I have not heard of the Dandenong clinic but we are not far from there so would be interested to know where it is.

I think its a good thing that my close friends and family know our situation now. We are going to my friends place this weekend for her daughters 1st birthday and after being singled out at her shower (the usual tick tock from my mum and her mum asking me when we were going to get on with it) they are all a little more considerate now. Though my mum still seems to think its ok to tell me that hubby and we just need to get on and shag like anything...