thread: AF late & going nuts but BFN!

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  1. #1
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    Beata, I don't have any exerience with this. Although I would say it is possible if you implanted a little later/slower than what is usual. Try to relax, and if you still have no AF by the weekend perhap organise a BT to find out what's going on?

    I'm praying so hard that this is your little long awaited Earth Baby, though

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    Beata, I so hope there will be a BFP waiting for you in couple of days' time and you don't even need that FET! Hang in there hun...

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    I have a friend who didn't get a +hpt until AF was a week late. I think Teagz' suggestion of a BT if no AF by the weekend is good.

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    Hi Beata,

    Sorry to hear you are stressed, I hope it is just a late implanter and AF stays away. Have you just come off an IVF cycle last month? My only other thought is that, for me the natural cycle following a stim cycle was always about 7 - 10 days longer, normally I have a 33 day cycle, but AF normally arrived around day 40 - 43 after stims, it seems the body just gets a bit out of wack.

    Wishing you all the best, I hope it is a surprise BFP. xx

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    Beata... I'm on my first cycle post stim cycle. Stim cycle AF was on time, but this month I am already a week late with 2x neg hpt's. In my case it seems the stim cycle has really messed me up, I haven't been more than 31 days in 3 years so this is really pestering me too.
    So I can completely understand your frustration.

    Hopefully my IVF clinic will call me back tomorrow (that's when my fave nurse is in) so I can find out what's happening.

    Hang in there because I am right there with you. (Going nuts).

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    Hi Girls,

    Thanks so much for your replies. Still no AF, every time I go to the loo I expect to see it but there is nothing and no cramping....The thing is, my DF's swimmers' count is so low, I don't think there is any chance for a natural pg. I just think if I'm not UTD, I wish AF showed up so I can look forward to my FET in about 2 to 3 weeks! We just thought we'd give it a red hot go one more time before the FET and I actually did the ovulation test and found out I ovulated around day 16/17 so we really concentrated DTD around that time. Usually we DTD day 13, 14 & 15 so we were probably missing the most 'fertile' time .
    I have only had one stimulated cycle in May 2008 which resulted in a pg with a 5 day old blastie, but I had a loss at 20weeks, and since then I've had a big fibroid removed in Jan this year and now I'm getting ready for my FET, which is my second (and last) blastie from that stimulated cycle.

    Teagz, cuddlepie & juniper76 thanks for your advice girls, if AF doesn't come in the next few days I will do more investigating.

    Baby Dreamtime, congrats on your pg hun! I sometimes lurk in the TWW and was very excited when you announced your BFP!

    Sonya, GL for tomorrow hun. Have you just done a FET cycle recently?

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    I had my AF after my first stim cycle 5 weeks ago, my first FET will be when the darn witch decides to show up.
    So I am very close in cycle to you I think.

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    Hey Sonia, I'm sorry you didn't get your BFP hun after your stim. cycle. I was very lucky to get it, but then I believe my body wasn't up to scratch to carry a pg to term as I had a pretty nasty fibroid.
    I am now, like you, awaiting AF to have my FET. Wow, we are at a very similar time in our cycles! Like you, I just want AF to show up (unless God has other plans) so I can just move on and have another go. I've been waiting for so many months for my body to recover & heal from my op.

    Did you have a go naturally in between cycles and that's why maybe AF is late and there's a chance you might be pg??? I truly hope so!! If not, don't worry too much hun, there is always next time and another apportunity for you to have your much wanted bub.

    B xxx