Good Evening Ladies,

I have attempted to chat over the last couple of days but have been rather social - so I'm making up for all of you! I'm sure that's because I have not taken any drugs for this cycle so I'm feeling v normal - still not one side effect but think I'll do a HPT tomorrow morning which will be day 14 of my cycle.

I guess the other thing that makes this easier for me is that I have a 10mth DD to distract me and to take the pressure off getting pregnant - mind you I really want this like all of you but I am grateful for what I have. Let me assure you that the tww will go much quicker for you next time (coz you'll all get BFP's this time) and you'll have a DD or DS to chase after - or two or one of each for those of us who have had 2 embies transfered!

A question for you - why so many diff BT dates? Is it diff cycle days (or lack of in the case of some women)? Or is it just diff clinic standards? ie, my clinic indicates you must have a BT even if AF arrives?

I am feeling particularly positive for all of us today, have also napped the last two days which I'm taking as a positive sign - hopefully I'm growing a little embie (I'll ignore the late nights and early mornings I've had). Will do a HPT tomorrow which may bring me back to reality - but until then I'll continue to be positive - and therefore suffer the paranoia that maybe the scrambled eggs I ate for brekky weren't quite 100% cooked - and all the other food worries that come with pregnancy.

Lynn, I can't believe that people are so insensitive, you have suffered every women's worst nightmare, you are so brave. I agree with Missy, from being on this forum you will have so many more people praying for you - but don't worry Missy, I'm praying for all of us!

Sorry for the long rant - trying to make the most of the little time I have online!

Nat