Hi Diva,
Sorry you are having such a hard time - its pretty daunting when you first get told your only option is IVF - give it time to sink in - ive done it many times and the emotional rollacoaster is the worst part - you get over the physical pain and the fear of injections etc its the mental/emotional stuff thats the hardest. You will get thru this and you will survive trust me. Why not start with making some enquires with Melbourne IVF clinic i go thru Sydney IVF and i have heard about MIVF and believe its pretty good. Actually the most important thing is finding a doctor that you trust and get on with - its such a big part of the journey - just want to wish you luck.