Hi zoimeister,

My DH has azoospermia, and when the specialist checked the testes, he was not producing sperm. You may be lucky and your specialist may discover sperm in the testes. This means that ICSI could work for you.

However, if this is not possible, don't discount donor sperm. Genetics really has little to do with being a mother or father. DH and I decided to go down this path after much deep thought. Obviously you and your DH need to have a firm idea what you will and will not do to have a child.

Adoption is another option that you may wish to think about - either in Australia or overseas.

If you have just been told about the azoospermia it's no wonder that you are angry with everyone including God. It's not an uncommon emotional response. I get angry with people and with God quite often. But we get back to having a great relationship eventually

I personally would recommend finding a really good counsellor to get you through this and get to the nitty gritty of what you want to do.

All the best...