I guess your post is asking us whether or not WE think YOU should have babies or not? (Well thats how Im reading it)

If you have gone as far as to find out about IVF, then you obviously dearly are wanting a child.

Whether you conceive naturally, or with ivf, that doesnt make you any different in the world of "motherhood".

Many women need to resort to IVf and there is no shame in doing so...whether the women have problems, or the men, it makes no difference.

Dont feel pressured into doing IVF if YOU really don't want to. But no, unfortunately time isn't on your side

If you need more information from them, demand it. You will be a paying customer so you need to know everything about everything and make sure they tell you everything you need to know.

This is no excuse, but I know how busy they are-- they seem to forget that we have feelings sometimes.

I really hope you and your DH can agree together on what the next step is, and I pray for your conception very soon.

Good luck xx