Your situation reminds me of our situation just a few months ago! Our world came crashing down when we found out about my DH's chromosome abnormality...now 4 months on and we feel alot stronger and have learnt to accept our situation.

I am so sorry that you're going through such a difficult time. All I can say is that hang in there and things will get better. My DH was diagonosed with chromosome abnormality last year in Oct and I was also 5 weeks pregnant then! I was also told that I will miscarry and sadly I did at 8 weeks. I really really hope and pray that yours is a different outcome. We were told that even if the pregnancy continues the chances of the baby having severe abnormalities were high so in a way it was better that we miscarried. It was the most difficult and painful experience I've had to ever go through. I really really hope that things work out for you and by some miracle everything goes fine for you.

We have been TTC for 2 years now and have had 3 miscarriages and 2 chemical pregnancies. After finding out about the abnormality, the doctor had given us 2 options to have children and that were to either go for adoption or donor sperm. We looked into adoption and decided that it would take too long and its a very very lengthy and difficult process. I was not at all keen on donor sperm but over time have come to accept that this is the only option for us and we are now going down the donor path. DH and I after a lot of thought, counselling and discussions feel pretty comfortable with the idea and are now on the waiting list for donor sperm.

I wish you all the luck and prayers in the world ...if you ever need to chat, then please don't hesitate to PM me.

You take care of yourself x