I see pregnant women smoking all the time at my Fertility Clinic too (I'm pretty sure we're at the same one Jodie). I wish I could slap them sometimes.

One thing that really gets to me is coming out from a blood test/transfer/fs appointment and seeing a pregnant couple going into the emergency, obviously so excited that their precious bundle is going to be born. I can't help getting choked up at that sight, thinking "that could have been me . . ." I don't know why I do it to myself sometimes.

Please don't feel bad Jodie, you have as much right as the rest of us to post in these threads!!