Update - DH and I went and saw Chiemi on Saturday. See is lovely and seemed to know what she was doing. Asked me all different questions about our IVF cycle and I think the good thing about the clinic was that we both had to fill in a big questionniare before we went and then she went through that with us at the begining of the appointment. I think they are great because it gives you time to think before you are "put on the spot". We both had a dose of acupuncture and have been given some lovely tasting herbs to take. We go back in 3 weeks time. She has said it will take about 3 months so we'll see what happens. I feel like we are at least being a bit proactive about it now and doing something towards making it all happen.