Thanks for the replies I do feel a lot better about it now. I think my main issue is I haven't accepted the fact it might not happen naturally. Even now I have my fantasy that I will get to the FS appointment and they will discover I'm pg already.

My FS ran his own tests, even though the OBS/Gyno had done the CD21
ovulation test and my DH did a sperm test... so it was sort of pointless in a way b/c the FS disregarded the first lot of tests. Just make sure you have plenty of questions written down to ask when you see the FS, it can be a little daunting
What questions should I ask?