Thanks kelly i am going to see how many fertilise and go from there the scientist did say i could ring early monday morning (day 3) and see how they are going and decide then she also said as i have been pregnant before that does increase the odds a little but we also have a genetic issue so 1 in 4 of our babies will be effected so that is one reason i wanted to go to day 5 i really don't know what to do i really want a TF this time and i am scared i wont have any make it to day 5.