Krikkit, just because things went badly doesn't mean it's impossible to get anywhere.

My first cycle we had 26 eggs collected 15 fertilised and 4 grew to blast...
Second cycle we had 32 eggs, 20 fertilised and 7 grew to blast...

All of those were used with frozen transfers as I had bad OHSS both times. Only 4 of the lot ever defrosted, I got pregnant with three of them, but lost all three.

When we got to my third cycle we managed to keep it down to 20 eggs, but only 12 were mature and of those only three fertilised. We were devestated and were making plans of how to save up for another cycle before we even got to transfer. We transferred on day three and I've got Sam in the next room and two frozen embryos to show for it.

I know you're sick of hearing about the age thing, but I do want to point out that even though a cycle looks like crap, it doesn't mean it can't work. I'd be asking questions about the maturity of the eggs that were collected and whether you should stim for a shorter/longer period of time or try a completely different cycle. There's a lot that can be done before you start throwing expensive drugs at a problem that may or may not be there.

BW