I am having my epu next week, have just been given all my instructions, they asked when DH & I last bd'd and I told them.

She told me no more intercourse or ejaculation from now until epu - I've worked it out and that is at least 6 days.

We had a SA done after 8 days (forgot about that bit!) and it came back with low morphology, have had it repeated twice since then (all with only 2-3 days abstinence) and DH's results were well above normal.

SOOOOO, what I'm getting to is don't you think leaving it 6 days is too risky, especially considering that it's for epu and fertilisation so it needs to be the best it can be???

I think we should do 'something' tonight and that way we'll get a much better result.

Please HELP!