buliej- firstly can I say I am really sorry to hear about your eggs not making it. I know each dissapointment like that dashes hopes and can be a real blow so I hope you are doing OK. hugs
secondly, i can relate to what you said about your DH watching the news and not paying you attention when you walked in...need/expecting attention straight away. Sometimes it's ben the same with DH and I...and if I snap and yell he gets defensive and upset...yet if I calmly explain, he does what I need every time. Thanks for taking the time to share.
possums, so sorry for what you are going thru.
we are definitely different creatures, men and women!
Does your clinic offer counselling or is there a close friend you can chat to about it? DH is dealing with it all, just differently.it might help if you were able to talk it out with someone not as close to it all.
it might help you and it might help DH.
men like to be the strong silent types but it affects them just as deeply. i thougth my DH ws blase in our last FET recently until I made some off hand comment in the 2WW about it ''not working,i just know it'' and he burst into tears! i felt like an insensitive witch. now i'm more aware of supporting him as he does me and more sensitive to his signals (which are easily missed or misread).
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