Thank you Myturn, I really appreciate your advice. It's hard to reset your thinking once you know, I still have thought the last two months when Ive been a few days late "oh I might be pregnant?!" Even though it's physically impossible. Seeing the FS next week to find out husbands results and start a 'where to from here ' plan.

So glad your got your baby in the end, there's hope for everyone right X