thanks so much for all your answers
Rach 81 wow 1st time i hope thats me !
Sarah H i'll have a look at your blog, it's just hard as i just don't know anyone who's gone thru this and i'm hoping all your info can help
Princess fiona. well third time lucky is not too bad, i suppose i don't want to be still trying 6 times later as emotionally i don't want to be drained for my boys.
Belle 3
i hope it all goes well in april for you
Bec g. i'm hoping for a girl too as 3 boys are a handfull but i'd be happy as long as it's healthy.
thanks sushee i wasn't sure where to post as i've not been trying for more than 12 months as you can't be trying if your dh has had a vasectomy.

i feel like this is the tww, just waiting to go back to fs. i know i'm not the first one to do ICSI but i just wanted some advice.
it's scary and i'm aprehensive and excited about the whole thing.
basically i've only told my sister who lives at other end of state and good friend down here, i don't want everyone ringing me up and saying how did it go ?
are you pregnant yet.
also i've had 3 miscarrieges before at 6 weeks and apart fom close friends and belly belly of course i don't want anyone to know.
thanks so much good to hear some positives

janet mum of 3 boys
5 , 7 and 9