HI Teepee
the others have covered the relationships issue but the cost - if you are near Westmead - Westmead Fertility centre I recommend - not public but not for profit based in Westmead hosp .We conceived twins (now 32wks pg) on our 2nd IVF cycle. The nurses (most of them) are wonderful ... you see a DR of your choice to start with but he may not do all your procedures. Their costs are very affordable especially with medicare rebate. The upfront costs are considerably lower than most private clinics too.NO hospital inpatient costs either.

Check the Cost of IVF thread.
RPA hospital also has a public clinic - lower costs than Westmead I am told from others I know now currently pregnant through them.

You can google any of them and Westmead will also send a CD and brochure pack explaining verything in detail - most clinics also have comprehensive websites.

Hope you don't need this though...
with hope Trish