Knowing when to go back

[Willow]

BW, I've been through AC and a m/c but not together, as you know (ie the baby we lost was conceived naturally before we started IVF).

I’ve had some suggest that I’ll be ready to go back when I’m able to face the prospect of another miscarriage

I don't agree with this. No one is EVER ready to face the prospect of another m/c and I think if I'd waited till I was ready for that, then I'd still be waiting!

It's hard for me to answer your question because I was in a situation where I needed to have surgery asap after we lost our bub (it had been postponed only because we found out I was prg) so I had to wait. But after my surgery I wanted to try again immediately.

I think your FS is right that you'll just know when you're ready. I think once you're ready there won't be any doubts or questions in your mind about it.

Maybe once you see Dr S in a few days that will help to sort things out in your head too?