Did you FS give you any info to read over? Right now your head is spinning with this news. Give it some time to settle a bit, then have a talk and go from there. It's ok to feel like this, and you will get there
For what it's worth, I was another who was a deer in the headlights when we got the "IVF" news. I didn't want to go that way, and even the day i picked up my drugs, I was still not wanting to do it. Had I not, I wouldn't have a 2 year old DS, and we think the pre-IVF treatment my FS had me on, helped with my endo enough for us to conceive #3 by ourselves!
If you FS hasn't given you anything, could you contact their office and ask for some reading material to be sent or maybe they can suggest something to read? What about another appointment when the shock has settled down, then you can ask all the questions you both have? Might help to make things a little bit clearer?
Lotsa hugs
Oh Nic! .....
you are one of the strongest women i know, and i know you both can do this once you process it all... I'm sorry it's taken till now to finally find out, but this can be your new start, on the right path, to fulfilling your dream.
xx
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