Vic, I'm so sorry to hear that. We went through it in January and it's such a shock. Are you getting any testing done? I found it helped to know there was a chromosomal problem, but I know others prefer not to know.

Krikkit, in my experience the oracle HPTs are NOT sensitive. Last year I didn't get a BFP until 13dpo and the FRER the same day was clear as a bell, so I'm sure I'd have gotten a line much earlier if I'd been using the FRER instead of the oracle ones. I've just switched to inpregnancy on the recommendation of a friend but haven't had a chance to test the sensitivity since I've only gotten BFNs...