Long Term TTC & Assisted Conception 2015 #1

**TubbyPuff** · March 8th, 2015, 11:07 AM

Sunday 8th March 2015

Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kel82 -taking a break
PositivelyGTC -taking a break
1 More Please -taking a break (March 2015)
Jo_white -saving for IVF
TubbyPuff -saving for IVF
Jane -taking a break
Emma09 - ???
Bestrong - ???
Adgirl -CD22

Waiting for Transfer

Hanging out in the TWW

Got their BFP in March

If I have forgot anyone, gotten some numbers wrong or you would like to be added to the list then please let me know...

**TubbyPuff** · March 9th, 2015, 11:30 AM

Monday 9th March 2015

Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kel82 -taking a break
PositivelyGTC -taking a break
1 More Please -taking a break (March 2015)
Jo_white -saving for IVF
TubbyPuff -saving for IVF
Jane -taking a break
Emma09 - ???
Bestrong - ???
Adgirl -CD23

Waiting for Transfer

Hanging out in the TWW

Got their BFP in March

If I have forgot anyone, gotten some numbers wrong or you would like to be added to the list then please let me know...

**TubbyPuff** · March 11th, 2015, 10:27 AM

Wednesday 11th March 2015

Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kel82 -taking a break
PositivelyGTC -taking a break
1 More Please -taking a break (March 2015)
Jo_white -saving for IVF
TubbyPuff -saving for IVF
Jane -taking a break
Emma09 - ???
Bestrong - ???
Adgirl -CD25

Waiting for Transfer

Hanging out in the TWW

Got their BFP in March

If I have forgot anyone, gotten some numbers wrong or you would like to be added to the list then please let me know...

**TubbyPuff** · March 11th, 2015, 10:28 AM

Oops missed yesterday!
How are we all today?

**hopeful mum** · March 11th, 2015, 06:00 PM

I might be returning to this group due to a reducing hcg level :'(

First test 101 on 25feb
Second test 2200 on 4mar
Third test 1900 today

Praying that it is only a glitch and not an indication of my bub dying :'(

I realise that there is nothing i can do, but feeling heartbroken already. Having another test tomorrow morning. I am 6 weeks yesterday. Have ultrasound booked for next week, might have to see about bringing it forward just to confirm if there is a heart beat or not.

:'(

**Jane :)** · March 11th, 2015, 08:34 PM

Hopeful Mum its such an awful feeling when this happens. Really hoping that tomorrow brings better results and you see a good strong heart beat soon. Big hugs babe.

**hopeful mum** · March 11th, 2015, 08:50 PM

I don't know if anyone else has had this happen, and had a successful pregnancy? ?

I know that if it is the worst, then I will be taking a break from the ivf train to regenerate and get into a healthier and positive place.

I will post results tomorrow. Heading to bed to try and sleep although so much is running through my head at the moment :'(

**1 more please** · March 12th, 2015, 07:33 AM

hopeful mum such a worry and anxious time I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Praying that tomorrow's bt will bring
good news and your numbers are going up, I have everything crossed for good news for you

and sending you lots of

**1 more please** · March 12th, 2015, 07:34 AM

Sorry hopeful mum I ment your bt today. Thinking of you xxxx

**Adgirl** · March 12th, 2015, 07:41 AM

Hopeful mum keep positive im praying for you. Stick little one stick!

**1 more please** · March 12th, 2015, 05:30 PM

Hopeful mum any news yet? Thinking of you and praying bub is ok xxxxx

**Jane :)** · March 12th, 2015, 08:13 PM

Hopeful Mum. Not sure how this morning went but I just wanted to send you a big hug and lots of prayers. Thinking of you at this difficult time. XO

**hopeful mum** · March 12th, 2015, 09:38 PM

Thank you ladies. Got bt results this afternoon, after finishing work at 4pm.

Hcg decreased to 1800, being 100 less then yesterday. Ivf nurses were unable to contact fs but decided that I should test again on Monday. They also mentioned that as it didn't go down much that it might be only one of the two transferred embryos that hasn't survived. I am so praying that this is the case and that there is still a little fighter growing.

I was also able to change my fs ultrasound appt from wrd arvo to Mon arvo. Nearly wasn't able to, but when I got emotional and mentioned to his receptionist about my lowering Hcg she found a spot for me. Thankfully she was thoughtful enough to do that.

So I have a long wait until Monday at 3pm, when I will know one way or another. I will try and rest, focusing on positive thoughts that there is still a little bub growing inside :-)

I will let you wonderful ladies know mon arvo/night xo.

**Pholi** · March 13th, 2015, 05:40 AM

Ladies, I'm sad to say I'm back.

My first scan was delayed by a couple of weeks as I was away on holidays, and I had it on Wednesday.

It was bad news. The embryo had stopped developing around 6 weeks (I should have been 9 1/2. It probably never had a heartbeat.

I had a D&C yesterday. The remains will be tested for chromosomal disorders. I will have BTs to track my hormones and see my FS in a month or so for results and to make a plan.

I am very sad.

And DP has already initiated the 'we can't afford this forever, it's taking a toll on the family, I'm under a lot of stress as the money earner ' conversation.

**Adgirl** · March 13th, 2015, 05:51 AM

Oh pholi I am so so sorry that is just devastating. Ivf is such a rollercoster with finances emotions and disappointments no one tells you how hard it can be on your relationship. I am thinking of you, be kind to yourself xx

**1 more please** · March 13th, 2015, 07:24 AM

Pholi I'm so sorry that's heartbreaking, totally agree with Adgirl IVF is a rollercoaster with finances and emotions and so many disappointments
and can be very hard on relationships, take care and be kind to yourself, sending you lots of

hopeful mum so pleased they think everything might be ok, thank goodness you could get in early for ultrasound that could have driven you crazy the wait xxxx

**Jane :)** · March 13th, 2015, 07:41 AM

Pholi I am so very sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to grieve your loss and know thay we are herw to support you in any way we can.

Hopeful mum, sending lots and lots and lots of sticky vibes. Hoping that you have a little fighter on board. Good luck for Monday. Will be thinking of you over the weekend.

**Miss.B** · March 13th, 2015, 08:21 AM

Girls I've been checking up on you and I wanted to say how sorry I am for you Pholi. I'm sorry you've found yourself here again, it sucks. It's such an emotional and heart breaking time when a m/c happens, I wish you peace and acceptance during this difficult time. It's so bloody hard and unfair. Huge hugs lovely xx

Hopeful mum, I'm so sorry your results are not what you'd been hoping for. FX all is not lost. GL for Monday hun xx