Hopeful mum. When I had my lap in 2011 I had it covered for a few days, possibly even a week. The dr said it didn't need to be covered that long but it made me feel better about the healing and any weeping. If your wound isnt red or angry looking then its probably fine. Our FS said only 1 cycle off after a lap is needed. And in terms of pgd, I haven't done it but know a few ladies that have. I guess its just one more bit of technology they can use to find the best possible embryo to give you the best possible outcome. But all that aside just want to send you a big hug. It sucks and it isnt fair. Cry. Scream. Do whatever you need. It is a huge loss which I can only imagine is made harder by all that we invest through the ivf process. Take care hun.