Saw some old girlfriends yesterday. Two of them are pregnant. Im happy for them but it's still hard. They try to be caring but they really don't understand what it is like from this side of the fence and small things they say can feel so hurtful. Like "do you ever think that if you made more space in your life that things would happen" or "we fell pregnant cos the condom broke" or "I'm really over being pregnant" or "you just do what you have to do" (with no understanding of what that means). I got snappy a few times but managed the best I could.