Oh, forgot to say - Mother's Day, my sister-in-law announced she was 5 weeks pregnant, due Jan 8. Was happy for her but toally internally not happy given our cycle (which will be due Jan 28 if all works well). All i could think for the rest of the day was if this FET doesn't work, then her bub is going to be a constant reminder of our loss. I probably sound like an ungreatful whinger but noone knows we're doing this cycle, we don't want the pressure from family or friends, but now, i felt like, i don't know, i just felt Yuck!