MyTurn- Sending you the worlds biggest hug.. It's so not fair. I really hope the FS has some answers for you next week. Hang in there honey, I know the constant let down is heartbreaking but one of those little friaries could be the 'perfect one' Xx
Beau- Good luck for your transfer tomorrow.. I am praying like mad that you get a sticky one honey Xx
Loads of hugs and baby dust to everyone else.. You girls are all amazing and I hope each and every one of you gets a BFP soon Xx
AFM- BT this morning at 21 dpo and HCG was 1780. Had a scan to check on my cysts. Largest cyst is now down from 9.5cm to 5.5cm which I'm happy about.... And scan also showed one perfect little gestational sac which apparently looked exactly how it should. Juniper can you please move me into BFP.
Feeling very emotional right now.. Seeing my little snowflake on the scan has made it feel 'real'. I'm feeling very blessed
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Curtysgirl - taking a break JoeSpratt - taking a break CatyO - taking a break Bestrong - taking a break Bunnyfeet - taking a break Rai - taking a break Sarah4Kurt - waiting for AF Ceejelz - ??? Myturn - CD1 Kel82 - CD5 N2L - CD8 PositivelyTTC - CD10 Emma - CD10 Awesty - CD12 Williever - CD12 Mrs O'M - CD13 Juniper - CD15 Miss B - CD25
myturn, like some above, I'm in the 3-digit range for weight as well and, even in that range, if it's contributing to my IF, it's like a raindrop contributing to an ocean... If you were "unexplained", maybe you'd take a close look at it being a suspect, but you'd probably be seeing hormone imbalances and other obvious signs of the weight playing a part... I have one friend who probably was only IF because of her weight and there were clear signs suggesting that was the case - she simply didn't respond to the FSH injections (after a full month of daily FSH injections she had no follicles over 14mm) and had long annov cycles even though she didn't have PCOS - she lost weight and got pg without medical assistance (twice!) and when she got her first BFP she was still up around 120kg (after losing weight). If losing weight will make you feel better, then, by all means, work on it, but do it for yourself, but don't use your weight to blame yourself for your BFN. The BFN is not your fault, hun. You did all you could and were unlucky; you did nothing wrong.
As for how long to do this, that's different for everyone. At some point, the pain of continuing outweighs the pain of stopping... Until then, we keep putting one foot in front of the other and soldiering on...
Sounds like these ladies know what they're talking about myturn and like Juniper said don't blame yourself, you are doing your best and nothing wrong. Be kind to yourself x
Good luck tomorrow for transfer Beau sending you sticky vibes! x
Atm think the witch is on her way tonight. Starting a new job tomorrow oh and got a new puppy (fur child! ) this week, so it's all happening for me lol
to myturn. Dont give up gorgeous. One foot in front of the other. As for the weight issue i was at my heaviest.
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