Emma, sorry to hear you have no answers from the lap, but, at the same time, glad that everything looked good. You're right - the NK cells should be measured mid-LP (I think, to determine activity at what would be implantation time). I'd expect the zantac would be safe, but if you're taking other things, I'd call a pharmacy (or your Dr) and ask if there's any interaction or if they're safe to take together.
Curtysgirl, wow! What a surprise! Congrats! Would love to hear how you go with the dating scan!
Afm, had a dark OPK at 2am yesterday and lighter at 2pm, so thinking I probably O'd early this morning. Will see how today's OPK looks (if it's lighter, I've almost definitely passed the surge)...
I'm really sorry I have just gotten back and I need to catch up.
I'm totally devastated my fs just rang me and she just got the chromosome testing we did on my miscarriage and
everything was normal and it was a little girl, I have no one else to tell and I just really needed someone to tell
i'm devastated I cant believe it, I'm just not sure what to do this has hit me a lot harder than previous miscarriage
i'm just lost at the moment:-(
I'm sorry about the whinge I really hope everyone is well xxxx
I'm really sorry I have just gotten back and I need to catch up.
I'm totally devastated my fs just rang me and she just got the chromosome testing we did on my miscarriage and
everything was normal and it was a little girl, I have no one else to tell and I just really needed someone to tell
i'm devastated I cant believe it, I'm just not sure what to do this has hit me a lot harder than previous miscarriage
i'm just lost at the moment:-(
I'm sorry about the whinge I really hope everyone is well xxxx
Oh Rai that's awful you poor thing that's harder to hear when you know it was a viable pregnancy could she explain what happened then?? Sending you a huge virtual hug and whinge away hun thats why we're here xxoxx
Oh Rai, I'm so sorry darling All I can offer is huge hugs and a shoulder to cry on It must be so devastating to find out there was nothing wrong with your little girl, for some reason the pg didn't take. We had a m/c early last year and also found out it was a little girl, except she had trisomy 16 so at least we had a reason. So sorry hun
Dear rai big hugs OOXX
I hope u can take some solace in the fact that you can work on your uterus environment and hormones and know most likely that points where to try "fixing"
Very tuff to know though hun :-( I wish you much more luck and happy baby/preg vibes for next time xo not fair any of this journey! Xo
I'm so sorry to hear that, Rai. Did they do the extra testing to rule out maternal contamination? Sometimes when they return a "normal female" result it means they tested cells from the mother instead of the m/c.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Juniper not sure i'm on the phone right now to double check I rang the pathology and they said to ring
fs so i'm on hold waiting to find out really hope they did:-( ok just got off the phone and it said maybe maternal so now i'm devastated again what does that
mean? F*** did I do something to hurt my baby?
Thank you so much for your kind words. Juniper not sure i'm on the phone right now to double check I rang the pathology and they said to ring
fs so i'm on hold waiting to find out really hope they did:-( ok just got off the phone and it said maybe maternal so now i'm devastated again what does that
mean? F*** did I do something to hurt my baby?
Rai please don't think this way, no, you did not hurt your baby hun! We had a m/c last year and the baby had trisomy 16. I don't know how it all comes about in the body, I guess a 'particular' egg meeting a 'particular' sperm (both or either not so great) that go to create an embryo that won't survive . All I know is that not all eggs and not all sperm are perfect hun. Sometimes the not so perfect ones meet or create an embryo, and unfortunately it's doomed. I guess it's selection of the fittest I suppose, they are the ones that go the distance. It's nature hun, really that's all it is. As much as that hurts to acknowledge and accept, that's what it is. Massive hugs hun, you did nothing wrong. Just remember hun xx
No, Rai! Not at all! It means when they collected the tissue sample they may have collected some of your cells and those may have been the ones tested. You did nothing wrong and it's, unfortunately, just one of those things that can go wrong because it's an imprecise testing process. There are additional tests that can be done at the same time to confirm or rule out maternal contamination, but the majority of places don't seem to do those yet. I know they weren't done with ours. The problem is that you don't know if you lost a healthy girl or if it was your cells (since you are a healthy girl). Any "boy" cells are definitely the m/c and most unhealthy "girl" results are certain to not be the mother, so this is pretty much the one result where there's a chance the result is inconclusive.
Thursday 19th September 2013 Happy International Talk Like a Pirate Day! (We'll have to pretend this ninja is a pirate since we don't have a pirate emoticon and I can't use a pic from elsewhere...) Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
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Ceejelz - ??? Awesty - ??? Kel82 - CD4 Mrs O'M - CD5 N2L - CD5 Williever - CD11 Emma - CD11 Juniper - CD16 Babycakes - CD28
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I will be back in shortly. had some odd bleeding on wiping Tuesday, went to work and got checked out, no fetal heart had to go back in yesterday for formal u/s then I requested a D&C as DH is home until tomorrow so I didn't have to be the responsible parent while I recovered. I was 10+5 but babe measured somewhere between 8+3 and 9+1...
We haven't decided what we will do yet as its all a bit fresh and need to have a period now. But we have 3 snowflakes and while I am not sure I want to do it again I'm not sure if I can give them away knowing I didn't get my last baby.
you poor thing that's harder to hear when you know it was a viable pregnancy 
All I can offer is huge hugs and a shoulder to cry on 
Happy International Talk Like a Pirate Day! (We'll have to pretend this ninja is a pirate since we don't have a pirate emoticon and I can't use a pic from elsewhere...)
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