mels77- thankyou for the support, I just want to see a FS but no one will give us a referral I keep getting told they are only for female infertility, we have male factor and only a urologist will help but I truly think this is &*%$#! should I just ask my gp outright for an ivf clinic referral? what did everyone else say? advice would be great!

MRS M- good luck hun! let us all know how it goes! also how did you get the referal?

ME-21
DP 21-89% abnormal sperm
TTC#1 for 2 years!
one blighted ovum May 08
My hubby went to eurologist and had reversal, didn't get enough for pregnancy, straight away he sent us for IVF, his referal was only good for 3 months so we went to our New GP who gave us another as his is good for 12, seriously if your gp won't give you one get a second opinion we did. Because we already had kids and changed our mind our original GP told us don't be silly it's a phase and it will go with time, 3 years later we changed GP's, the new one gave us a referal for the reversal and now to IVF. Just follow your heart. A good GP will understand and support you, that's what they are there for.