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hi everyone!
I hope all is well, it doesnt seem to be too busy in here, im surprised! im having one of those crappy days where everything seems to stand still and you feel stuck and like you will never get to see those 2 lines. I have nothing to do but wait until my gp returns from leave and for our first urology appointment in feb, im waiting for AF in the next 3 or 4 days and Im hating that xmas is around becuase we were supposed to have a 2 week old precious baby right now. I find myself crying all the time feeling like im getting nowhere and i dont know how to relax i feel its destroying our relationship as my DP often cries and is always texting me through the day saying he wish he could get me pregnant and cant wait to have a baby and I wish i could give him one soooo much how do you all do it? this will be our 9th month trying since my miscarriage and over 2 years now in total and DP is going away interstate for army training for 6 months next year and It is going to drive me insane not being able to TTC as I have to finish my last 6 months of my degree. we already have 2 grand saved for fees and such and just cant seem to get anyone to listen that we are ready. Im sorry to be so down but I dont like to burden my wonderful partner all the time.
TTC#1 for 2 years
ME-21
DP-21 89% abnormal sperm
urology appointment-FEB 19
1 blighted ovum May 08 :(
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Hi,
Wishing everyone a great weekend.
Neptune: Just saw your post and exactly the same thing happened to me, there were only two follies and my E2 never got over 100, I was on a downregulated cycle with the Pill and then Lucrin. I'll be doing an antagonist cycle once my AF appears which could take until January. Would be great if we could be cycle buddies.
Sara
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well i knew my mother would do it to me :( she isnt coming down with us now because we havent got hubbys car pasted for rego and have to take mine i give up oh well such is life.....
sarahxxxxx
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OH SARAH HUN,
DONT STRESS JUST GO AND HAVE FUN DOWN THERE YOUR GONNA LUV IT
ill be thinking of you drive safe
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thanks smithy
we will be driving safe taking turns on driving
sarahxxxx
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this is what i have worked out to ask
Things to ask Dr Soo
Can we put 2 embryos back?
What is involved?
What are our chances with IVF at our age?
Can I take my pills?
Pills I am on are
Enalapril 20mg
Efexor-XR 150mg
Dithiazide/ Hydrochlorothiazide 25mg
is there anything else i should ask?????
sarahxxxx
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;)i think youve got it pretty much covered there hun and ill be thinking of you heaps you have done so well waiting this long and you deserve all the best;) i wish you new me a bit better i could have had the kids for ya or helped in some way or if you had of got to tired and need a rest you could have stopped here at nambucca for the night if you ever need me let me no rite
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hi 21 - i'm so sorry. it is such a tough process and it does often feel like there's no end in sight. hang in there - feb is not far away and i'm sure that once you start getting to your appointments you'll really feel like you're moving forward.
mrs m - can't think of any other questions. i think you've got it covered. good luck.
afm, triggered last night and FET is booked for 12.30pm tuesday! i chickened out and decided to only go for 1 embie (FS explained that twins has far higher risks of premmie, cerebral palsy etc which I decided I would be too stressed about - plus I'm quite petite so didn't think my body would cope well with twins). So bring on Tuesday!! :pray: :pray: :pray: for a xmas BFP
hope everyone's well.
mels x
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mels77- thankyou for the support, I just want to see a FS but no one will give us a referral I keep getting told they are only for female infertility, we have male factor and only a urologist will help but I truly think this is &*%$#! should I just ask my gp outright for an ivf clinic referral? what did everyone else say? advice would be great!
MRS M- good luck hun! let us all know how it goes! also how did you get the referal?
ME-21
DP 21-89% abnormal sperm :(
TTC#1 for 2 years!
one blighted ovum May 08
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smithy: how are you going. i hope you're recovering well. just letting you know i am thinking of you. you're an amazing woman.
mels: yeah TWW buddies!!! i can't wait. glad your trigger went well. looks like i'll be doing FET on wed. see you soon. christmas BFP for us both.
neptune: good to have a plan. hope it all goes well in jan.
tania: have fun dtd. could be it for you. good luck
21ttc: it's hard not to put too much pressure on yourself. especially this time of year we seem to notice these things more. just try to have some "me time" ok. maybe a massage or acupuncture. shiatsu massage is good for stress relief. sending you some hugs xxoo
sara69: see you in january. good luck. 2009 is your year
mrsM: such is life. have a great trip and i think you've got questions covered. maybe ask what day embryo they usually put in?
can't think of anything else for you to ask. hope all goes well
afm: well looks like prob FET on wed the 10th of december and i am going to tell them i need to test on 24th ( my birthday) as i can't wait til the next week because of public hols for xmas.
this is it for me. my BFP will be soon. being positive.
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21- I understood that ivf clinics were for both types of infertility? like, if your DP has low spm, then icsi ivf would be perfect for you? i suppose it depends on whether they think they urologist could actually treat /correct your DP's spm issues?? personally I found I got the most answers, and felt I was moving forward, once I had a referral to an ivf clinic. they know what they are doing in regard to fertility problems. but i'm not a doctor...and you're probably constrained by what the doctors are prepared to recommend...very frustrating, i hope you're doing ok.
yay JBM! will be great to be TWWing together! this is the one for us, I just know it! i'm very excited and :pray: for that xmas BFP. i've got acu booked for straight after FET and osteo booked for 2 days after FET. i'll be trying to stay totally chilled and relaxed during this TWW...very excited.
mels xx
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Mollygirl - Good luck with your TWW, I have my fingers crossed for a BFP for you!
Meredith D - Good luck with your FET.
Saph204 - Wishing you the best for IUI in 2009!
Possums - I hope you're doing ok hon, thinking of you.
Mels77 - Good luck for FET on Tues, we'll be in the 2WW together.
Baby Dreamtime - Good luck honey, I'm so happy for you that you could start a week earlier. Enjoy your holiday in Bali, just relax and enjoy yourself. I can't wait to hear about your trip.
Smithy - Hi I hope you're well.
Ruth08 - Good luck with your FET in Dec, I have my fingers crossed for a BFP for you.
Neptune - I'm so sorry to hear about your last cycle but its great that you have a plan and you're starting again in Jan not long to go now!
MRS M - Not long to go now to see your FS.
thatgirl - Good luck with your transfer, I hope you get a BFP.
JBM - Good luck with your FET, I have my fingers crossed for a BPF for your Birthday and Christmas.
Miss Magpie - Good luck with your natural cycle.
21andTTC#1 - I hope you're feeling better, I feel for you. This whole process takes time, but just let your dr know that you would like a referral to see an IVF specialist. When I went to my gp I told them we had been trying for 3 years unsuccessfully and we didn't know what the problem was so my dr referred me to IVF specialist straight away. I hope this helps..
Sara69 - Hi, you have a good weekend too!
AFM - I am so excited we are doing EPU on Tuesday, this is my first IVF cycle I'm a bit nervous don't know what to expect but I'm also really really excited as now I feel I finally have a chance. I will be triggering tomorrow night not sure what time yet, waiting for a call to tell me and also to tell me what time the EPU is.
To all those I have missed, good luck to you wherever you are in your cycle!
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Well ladies I guess I am back in here with you guys as that witch AF arrived this morning :cry:
So it is back to jabbing and BT for me start back on my puregon tomorrow and Pregnyl the day after then first BT on CD10
Sorry no personals I will catch up on them all when I am feeling a little less sorry for myself till then Good luck everyone and hope to see some more bfp's from you all.
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oh im so sorry to hear af came naughty thing af
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Good luck for your EPU Jen :D
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wishingbaby - so sorry to hear that AF came. evil witch. i hope you're ok.
jen - good luck for your EPU on tuesday! will be great to be tww'ing together!
bec d - hope you're surviving the TWW.
mels x
