Juniper, any chance you can head them off at the pass by emailing them something before they come and and ask you questions? Do they already know the results, or this is something they do each cycle? My manager knows about IVF, too, and while I have chatted to her about the cycle prior to getting the result, she never asks me afterwards and I never tell her - a bit odd, I suppose, but she seems to just know not to ask.