Emerald star - you're so naughty hee hee. I can't talk either though. The POAS is hard to resist. I think there are definitely some good signs there. What post-transfer meds are you on? Did you have pregnyl? I think waiting til Friday is a good idea. I know I was caught out with light +ves in my 1st and 2nd transfer which I think was the pregnyl still in my system even after 10 days. Wishing you all the very best of luck :)
Emeraldstar I truly hope it is for you X!
I hade fake pos 14DPIUI, but it was 7DP 1500iu of pregnyl.
MrsP amd murraycod - NO PREGNYL!!! just Crinone Vaginal gel twice a day!!! I'm hoping it wasn't a faulty stick!!
Emstar I have everything crossed for you. I POAS after 6 days and also got a positive. But I wasn't on anything just a natural FET. OMG I hope this is the one for you.:
things are finally starting to happen with our furkid, hopefully the new additions will be here during night or tomorrow
the furbabies arrived between midnight and half past three this morning girl, girl,boy,boy,girl.im super tired as ive only literally had ten minutes sleep in just over 24 hours lol
Em Star - This might be where we part ways, because I also POAS 11dpo, or 6dp5d transfer and got a BFN :( So I think it's certainly a good sign for you to get a faint positive line as early as you have. I also POAS on 10dpo but stuffed the test up, which is why I repeated it the following day. So Tuesday was not a good day for me. I basically have given up on this round. I don't feel UTD. I don't have any symptoms, not even sore boobs (which I have on other cycles albeit they were negative). I am not in a good place with it all at the moment. We had our best cycle yet, heaps of good quality embies. Two blasties transferred and they were rated by the scientist as the top grade - so why doesn't it work? I don't know what else I could have done. It's just so unfair. To top it all off, we have to attend a 2yo's birthday party soon. So I will have to put on a smile on my dial and go along to see everyone else's kids when I can't have my own!
Sorry for the vent. I am so p'd off by how unfair the world can be.
some piccies of the babies
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Trubabe, they're gorgeous! Glad to hear they finally arrived safe and sound!
Brunette, 11dpo may still be early, but I understand where you're at. :comfort: I was meant to go to a baby shower a day after my BFN for IVF#2 and I just couldn't do it. Within a week of that we also had a 1st birthday/baptism to go to and another friend gave birth (I ended up crying when we visited her in hospital, but luckily since their first child was from IVF she understood)... :(
Emerald Star, :crossfingers:!!! :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Afm, if I do manage to get a BFP from this, I'll be making lots of jokes about my "baby brain" starting before I was pg... :rolleyes: I'm becoming the most absent-minded person in history! I just had this moment of panic wondering if I'd forgotten to do my shot this morning. Like I could forget to do that! Or could I? If I could forget I've done it, could I forget to do it? Aaaaaahhhhhh!!!!! :doh:
Brunette sounds like your having a bad day babe. :comfort:
Please don't give up, even if this isn't it you have 11 in the freezer, thats amazing!!!
xx
OOOh Girls I am so frustrated. Stil no af, nasty crampy pains, is going to be a shocker when it comes. Just had a naprosin. Had bloods done today prelim IVF, so should be starting very soon! So excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Trubabe sounds like you had an interesting night!! How are the pups going?? I'm not on Facebook so can't peek, but I'm sure they are just gorgeouse! You have the best mind diversion ATM!!!
Juniper, I would of suggested putting a cross on the calender every morning after you have the inj, but what if you forget that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just another thing for you to have to remember!:lol:
Brunette darling sorry your having a bad day, I can only imagine what you are going through, I had enough trouble coping with the IUI's not woking for me.
Sweetheart take each day as it is, we are all here for you, no matter the result stay strong. ( I avoid kids parties all the time! I thaught I was the only one!) When DH and I get invited somewhere, I discreetly find out if there is going to be babies there....hence our absence......
Emeraldstar no Pregnyl hey!!!!!!!!!! Hmmmmmmmm;)
Babytruj as soon as I get AF I have to go on the pill for 2 weeks to avoid Repromed's Christmas break! They normally go off natural cycle, but this time of year a bit hard, atleast they are fitting me in before next years medicare bullox.
But for the IUI's DH gave me the inj, I couldn't bare to do it, I sat in the bathroom for over an hour with my tummy pinched ready to do it, but I just couldnt! Poor DH the first time almost hurt him more than it hurt me! But weirdly enough he looks forward to that part now.....:rolleyes:....na I think he likes feeling like he has a part in the treatment...other than the obviouse one anyway...:rolleyes:
MrsP hope you are feeling well X
Nix76 hope the last days are going fast for you X
Hi jaki80 X Rob X
Helllooo Ladies,
Well here i was bragging about a nice early faint BFP! well today i did another POAS and it was BFN!!! :wtf:
Well, serves me right and i should have waited...problem is both tests were NOT with my FMU....the first test i did with "Pregnosis Clear" which claims to be very sensitive and can detect as low as 25iui HCG..(this is the brand I also got a evap line on my 2nd IVF) the second test i did was with "Discover One Step" which i normally use, however it doesn't state how low HCG levels it detects..it just says "early detection".....so, my conclusions are: A) first test is true as it CAN detect low levels of HCG
B) Second test is correct and the first test is an evap line ( in which case i will never use again)
So i have decided to POAS again tomorrow morning with my FMU and Pee on both of them at the same time and see what happens....( what a psycho i'm turning into!!!!!)
Also Nurse called today 2 change BT date as they are overbooked and brought it forward to Tuesday!!! :D
Brunette - I don't think we will be parting ways....looks like i will be here awhile longer, :rolleyes: :shakehead:
Emstart I took my first POAS Tuesday afternoon 6DPT and it was positive. I was in Adelaide and hubby was home (200km away, and I had promised not to POAS) so by the time I got home I was devistated to see that the digital word PREGNANT had disappeared. Hoping to be able to tell him the next day which was WED I used my FMU and it was BFN, I was devo'd anyway on the Thursday I went and bought more and in the faternoon got a BFP again. And also on the FRI afternoon but not FRI am. Went and bad BT on SAT which is where I got my confirmed 100 HCG then on the MON my HCG was 293 they said it was a BFP and no more tests needed. I still do noy understand why I got BFP in the afternoon and not in the morning, my sister is a nurse and said good chance of twins, so I am so busting to get to my U/S.:
This week I did a FMU just to use up the last test, 2 ppl's over in Pregnancy after TTC have lost there bubs, :crying:, and I was in panic mode not being able to check on mine and wanted to check that it was still there, I have made myself sick with worry I know, but the local hospital thankfully had a cacellation on MON am and offered to put me in 5 days earlier as they understood how anxious I was.
I am just saying don't count it out yet. My cervix was still low and has only just risen, which I know is different with ppl but I was freaking out, and we all think it's over after the tww but then its getting yo the scan and hearing that heart beat, for crying out loud I went out and bought a doppler just to see if I could hear yet, and no I couldn't but I figured I can use it later on.
Peple that are close to us can't believe that we weny to IVF as we have kids already, but it didn't mean we didn't want more it's just how it is unfortunately, and so I am now happy to be pregnant, but very alone where we live. My inlaws are terrible and my family live far away and my mum has recently gone into a nursing home which is 2 hours away, and so I have relied heavily on all the people in this forum for my support and I always will and so sweety just remember to look after yourself and try to stay positive because where there is a will there is a way.
This year has been so hard for us especially DH, and I have come to realise how important my marriage is, you know we had decided this was the last FET and we were going to wal away. The financial pressure due to the drought for three years, has meant we have a hefty mortgage and couldn't justify spending the money when we do have children, the farm was struggling and we were TTC. And finally things are starting to turn. We are honestly pretty broke, but we have our family, hope we are pregnant with a healthy baby and we have a roof over our head and food in the cupboard. And I am so greatful; to be able to look back on this year and know that next year will be better, because at the end of the day once you have hit rock bottom there is no way to except for up! We aren't doing presents so much this year as we have learnt to be practicle and we had a family meeting and decided that we would set a limit of $20 on gifts. I feel that in the long run when you have been where we were, no mortgage and not having to worry to now having one and having to justify every cent spent has been a great lesson for not only me but our children as well.
Sorry for the rant girls I have had an emotional day, I am always like this at christmas, I feel so badfor those with the BFN's and those who have lodt their pregnancies when I am sitting here with children and pregnant again. If I could give anything to you I would but all I can do is walk beside you, be your friend and pray for you all and hope that thats enough because right now thats all I can offer. :grouphug:
:hug: Thank you all so much for the times you have listened, the times you have given advice and the times you have just said nothing. When Kelly created this forum she created an ability for people like myself that live in the country to be able to become a part of a community that will give that support and we all need it at some stage. :thumbsup:
Rob - Thankyou for all your honesty and sincerity..:hug: I really do hope that, that is the case with me and you are right that there still may be a chance for me. Also as ignorant as this may sound i often here women talking about their cervix being low or high...how do you know or check? if you are pregnant should it be high or low? let me know so can check myself..pleeeese!! Also would you say that the Pregnosis Clear is one of the best and most accurate on the market ?? GL for Monday and i'm sure everything will be just as you want it! :D And regardless of anything this christmas will be very special for you as you have gotten your pressie from Santa and next year he will be bringing pressies for Bubs....try not to let anything get you down...after all its XMAS!!
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Rob - how do i check the cervix?
I will PM you, probably a bit TMI for here lol.:
Brunette - I hope you are feeling a bit better today....but I know how you feel. Sometimes it is all just too much. I am on a bit of a downer at the moment too but the best thing is to just talk it out. Don't ever apologise for venting and telling it how it is....if you don't do that you'll implode. And you are definitely not the only one who avoids kids parties etc, I do it all the time! If they are real friends then they will understand. We just have to believe that it WILL be worth it. Hang in there ok xxx
Rob - Thank u for your story. I know I am emotional at the moment, but it made me cry! I haven't been on here long and to be honest I had my doubts but your right, it is just nice to know that we are not alone in this. Try not to stress and just muster all the positive thoughts you can, by the sounds of it you won't have to try too hard. You sound like you have a beautiful family and next year xmas will be even better :)
AFM - After they told me to just go straight into my next cycle, they called me the day after and put it off til Jan due to all the public holidays! But the doctor also said that usually when you are down to just one frosty that they do a whole new cycle to get more embies. Has anyone had this before? Now I'm confused and don't know what to do.