Beau, yay! Congrats! I've got you at 18dpo on the list, which would make you 4w4d...

Jo, I'm so sorry to hear you did not get good news. I've been there so often and know how much it hurts. We did ICSI with our last IVF and that gave us DD, so, as scary as it may be, it can be a very rewarding process.