Sarah, we haven't told anyone about either BFP/miscarriage since DD was born for much the same reasons - they wouldn't understand and I don't want to hear the (unintentionally) hurtful words. I had a really hard time with our mm/c and it took me a full 12 months to really move past it. If others had known, no doubt they'd have been telling me I should be "over it" much earlier... but sometimes these things just take a lot longer than you expect. I hope your physical recovery is quick so you can get started on the emotional recovery. xx

And I hope your DH is coping okay too. Mine never talks about our angels, but I know he was hurt every time.