Thanks for your comments Sushee, and I hope my perspective is interesting to you guys and also to your blokes if they are reading.

Lou, sorry, I wasn't aware you were having any difficulties of the OHSS or friend variety. Hope you pull through it quickly. We got the OHSS talk today too - DW is pretty small and they are a bit concerned about giving her too much in the way of drugs. It's certain complicated.

Diva, from our chat the other night I have got a fair idea where you are located and know exactly what you are saying, not just about that place but small towns/areas in general. It's very hard to keep things quiet. The other clinic here besides SIVF employs one of our old school friends as a scientist. We even used to share a house!